How To Say “Where Are You?” in Spanish - Helping You Find Your Way In The Spanish Language.

How To Say “Where Are You?” in Spanish - Helping You Find Your Way In The Spanish Language.

Directions can be a difficult thing. Whether you’re in a big city and need to find a meeting spot, or you lost your mom in a grocery store, there comes a time when you simply have to ask: “where are you?”

In English, those three words are usually sufficient. However, just as with many other phrases, a plethora of ways to express the same thing is at your disposal. Today, we often rely on Google Maps to tell us where to go or location services on our loved one’s iPhones to let us know what they’re up to. Sometimes, though, asking is traditionally the best approach. 

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How to Say “Where are You?” in Spanish

 The phrase dónde means “where,” and the verb estar means “to be.” They are pronounced [ˈdonde] and [esˈtaɾ] in the IPA transcription.

 Conjugating the verb estar and pairing it with dónde helps us ask the question “where are you?” [ˈtu] means “you,” and the following chart shows other personal pronouns to fit the audience.

Spanish Personal Pronouns

  • – you (informal)
  • yo – I 
  • él/ella/usted – he/she/you (singular, formal)
  • nosotros – we
  • vosotros – you (informal in Spain)
  • ellos/ellas/ustedes – they (masc.)/they (fem.)/you (plural, formal or informal)


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Different Forms of ‘Estar’ 

  • ¿Dónde estás? – Where are you (informal)?

One of the biggest differences between the English and Spanish languages are the formalities. We don’t use conjugated forms of verbs to indicate the degree of formality in a conversation in English. When speaking to a friend or relative, using the form is appropriate.

  • ¿Dónde está? – Where are you (formal)?

This option is the way to formally ask where someone is. If you are looking for your boss or someone of high esteem, está is the verb that you would use to address them. 

  • ¿Dónde están? – Where are you (plural)?

Looking for a group can be tricky. Sometimes, you get separated from the people you are meant to be with. Están is the proper way to address a group. It is also considered to be formal. 

Other Spanish Phrases with ‘Where’

Sometimes, it is necessary to find out someone’s location for different reasons. Maybe you’re meant to catch up with someone. 

  • ¿A dónde vas? – Where are you going?

Are you trying to tag along on an adventure? Asking where someone is going can help coordinate plans. Alternatively, it can be used to attempt to get a person to stay. 

  • ¿De dónde eres? – Where are you from?

When you first meet someone, finding out where they’re from is often one of the first talking points. An appropriate response would be: “Yo soy de Argentina.” (I am from Argentina.)

  • ¿A dónde vas a ir a la escuela? – Where are you going to school?

Students currently enrolled in exchange or study abroad programs in Spanish speaking countries are bound to make many new friends on their endeavors! It isn’t uncommon to meet fellow students from different educational backgrounds in these programs. Asking where they study is a great way to learn more about new people!

  • ¿Dónde estas viviendo? – Where are you living?

Asking where someone lives is a bit personal. It’s best to avoid asking strangers this unless you’re looking for a generalization, such as a country. However, if you’re catching up with an old pal, wondering about their current whereabouts can bring you up to date!

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Adónde vs. Dónde

People often mix up the word adónde (pronounced [aˈdonde]) with dónde. The simplest way to remember the difference is that adónde means “to where,” while dónde means “where.” You pair this word with the verb ir.

Conjugating “ir

  • Yo – voy
  • tú – vas
  • él/ella/usted – va
  • nosotros – vamos
  • vosotros – vais
  • ellos/ellas/ustedes – van

 ¿Adónde vamos? ­– Where are we going (to)? 

Knowing the difference between the two similar-sounding phrases can help clear up any miscommunication. Much like in English, Spanish has some words that sound like others with slightly varied meanings.

 Also, remembering when to use accent marks is extremely important when communicating through written Spanish. Thankfully, in both words, the accent mark belongs over the letter o depending on the context in which it is being used.

More examples with adónde:

  • ¿Adónde fuiste? – Where did you go?

Earlier, we learned how to ask someone where they are going. Here, we are asking the opposite. If someone slips out of the house without you noticing, ask this.

  • ¿Adónde van? – Where are they going?

This uses the conjugation chart above to ask about the whereabouts of a group.

  • Adónde fue? – Where did he/she go?

Fue indicates past tense. In this example, someone is curious about where someone else went.

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Exploring further: A dónde vs. adónde vs. dónde

Often, new Spanish speakers are intimidated by the similarities in these phrases. They mean similar things, with only slight visible differences between them. Fear not, the most significant difference between a dónde and adónde is its history.

The former is the more traditional approach, whereas the latter was introduced more recently. Grammatically, many see the separation of the two words to be more correct.

When to use an accent mark:

We’ve explored the different varying ways to ask people about their whereabouts. In each different expression, there are versions with and without an accent mark over the letter o. This brings us to the question: where do we use it?

The accent mark is necessary when asking a question. If you’re responding to the question in a statement, you do not need to indicate an accent mark over the letter o. You don’t use an accent mark when it introduces a subordinate clause.


Sometimes, learning the slight differences between similar phrases can make all the difference in the world. When practicing a new language, sometimes, these differences may seem confusing. However, once you point them out, they’re a breeze!


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Knowing how to ask someone where they are or where they’re going can make a huge difference in your day. As you understand everyone’s schedules, planning vacations can become a much smoother and more enjoyable process. Once you have everyone accounted for, you’ll be asking, ¿Dónde estás? far less! Also, don’t forget those accent marks!

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